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Congratulations on being invited to join the bridal party for a close friend's or family member's wedding! It's undoubtedly an exciting opportunity but also a huge undertaking that comes with many responsibilities and commitments. One of them is getting your perfect bridesmaid dress.

As a bridesmaid, you would want to look chic, elegant, and comfortable at the wedding. While this is definitely an exciting task, one question might arise: who will pay for your bridesmaid dress?

We know it’s a complex topic. So here is a guide to navigating these murky waters.

Who’s Paying?

As essential as the well-known Shakespearean question: “To be or not to be?” The pondering question of our dazzling bridesmaid character is, "To pay or not to pay for that coveted bridesmaid dress?" The more important one is, "Who pays for the dress?

Well, the short answer to that question is you. Although the etiquette rules on who should pay for the bridesmaids' dresses differ from country to country, in the United States, the norm is that the bridesmaids are expected to pay for their own outfits.

So if you accept the invitation to be a bridesmaid, ensure you are ready to splurge on your new attire.

Meeting in the Middle

If you feel overwhelmed by the financial burden of covering the entire cost of the bridesmaid dress, don’t hesitate to talk to the bride and reach a compromise.

If there is a mutual agreement between the bride and bridesmaids to share the financial burden of the bridesmaid dresses, it can be a thoughtful gesture from the bride's side to contribute half of the dress cost, especially when she has a pricey dress in mind or is aware that her bridesmaids may be facing financial constraints.

How to Save Money on Bridesmaid Dress

As a bridesmaid, you want everything to be perfect on your best friend's or family member’s special day, but you also want to keep your budget in mind. Don’t fret about it. Instead, try reaching the bride and picking the best dress within your budget that looks chic and gorgeous. In the end, love and understanding should be the drivers.

Here are some tips for the bride to keep in mind:

Choose a Versatile Color

Select neutral colors that work well with different body types and skin tones so you can wear the dress again to another event. 

You can find dresses with the perfect blend of elegance and practicality at The Asher Lane.

Go For Simple Designs

The more intricate the design, the higher the price. Select simple, classic designs that can be easily accessorized with statement jewelry or shoes.

Mix and Match

Instead of everyone wearing the exact same dress, consider a mix-and-match approach. Choose a color palette or a specific style and allow each bridesmaid to select a dress that fits her budget.

Saving money on bridesmaid dresses doesn't have to mean sacrificing style or elegance. Our talented team at The Asher Lane can help you choose and shop for the perfect gown from our bridesmaid dress collection. Our collection caters to various sizes, including regular and long lengths, ensuring a flawless fit for every bridesmaid. Contact us today to learn more!